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Organize a Book Club Tea

Summer is on it’s way.  Vacations, longer days, a little more relaxed time.  Now is the time to organize a book club (or revitalize the one you do belong to) – and a tea to go with it.  It might just be for summer reading or you might enjoy each other’s company so much you carry through to the rest of the year.

If your book club is not already established, to make sure you have a solid group at every meeting, try to recruit at least six readers.  Remember the old adage of intimate is never more than eight.  Need help finding those members?  Try co-workers or friends of friends. 

Clubs tend to meet once a month for an hour and a half during the school season, but the summer may find you meeting a little more often or for a little longer.  Sometimes the club meeting occurs as a rotation at each members home.  Others meet at a tea room or café.  Both are OK.  You might even want to try a pot luck picnic. 

For each meeting a member should make a dished inspired by that month’s book selection.  Cooking novices should not be intimidated.  A lot of chick lit, memoirs and cozy mysteries have easy recipes.    

But, wait.  The title of the blog post is organize a book club TEA.  If you are just starting the club, then you supply the food and tea for the first meeting.  If it is an established group, each person brings a portion of a menu.

You know I love Laura Childs books so I’ll use hers as an example.  In both her Cackleberry Club series and in her Tea Shop series, menus abound.  Just read.  In the later tea shop books she has ideas for teas in the back of the book.  Cackleberry books require a little more reading to find the menu.  But somewhere in the books there is an afternoon tea of some sort.  Sometimes the book has the recipe.  Other times it will take a little research. Other suggested authors include Leslie Meier, Laurie Gwen Shapiro, Jessica Beck, Brian O’Reilly and Diane Mott Davidson.

Select your book, read it and gather ideas.   Keep it simple.  Don’t intimidate the other members by having a high tea the first time.   Scones or cookies and tea with the accompaniments will be fine. 

A couple of weeks before your meeting, decide when and where to meet and invite the members.  Remind them of the book selected and print out a list of other food-themed titles for the future.  

A day or two before the meeting check your pantry to see you have all you need for the food, make sure you have enough china, cups, napkins, etc.  Shop and prepare any item that can be done ahead.  The day of prepare the food, arrange your furniture for conversation and be sure to allow yourself twice the time you thought it would take. (Mishaps happen.) 

It’s time to gather.  Set aside the first fifteen to twenty minutes for social time  and serving so everyone can focus on the book the remaining hour.  If you’re stumped for things to say when discussing the book, start by exploring the character’s relationships to food.

Before the end of the session establish a rotation of hostesses and the next book to read.  Set parameters for food costs and the formality of the event.  Decide the months you want to meet.  Do you want to skip the December meeting as things are so busy or does a member really want to show off her home and have a holiday tea? 

Also, decide whether you will stick with one genre or whether you will rotate that, too.  Perhaps it’s chick lit, or cozy mysteries or something deeper.  Maybe you want to stick with an era – Downton Abbey/Edwardian, Victorian, 70’s, etc.  If you choose Edwardian you could always dress the part and have a party to watch the season opener together. 

Fix yourself a cup of tea, gather your tablet, find a cozy chair and let your imagination organize the event.  Sometimes the hardest part is just getting started.  Have fun and enjoy.

 

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Tea Party for Grown Ups

Dawnya Sasse has been one of my mentors during my tea journey.  Here is one of her articles from e-zines. com.

By Dawnya Sasse

Adults, just as much as children, enjoy a tea party that celebrates any sort of occasion. Serving loose leaf tea is a healthy alternative to any party option and with the wide range of teas available, you can incorporate any theme or celebrate any occasion.  From birthdays to anniversaries or other events, tea is a fun, unique and easy way to create a party.  Use the event (is it a birthday or anniversary?) to determine the best types of tea to serve or, consider hosting a themed party.   A theme can be based on anything from a book character to the time of year.  Your party can be as simple or elaborate as you like.  Just use your imagination, because you are sure to find a tea that is perfect for the occasion!

Activities

Depending on the celebration, activities may range from traditional to unusual or even none at all!  In the fast-paced world we live in, many adults will welcome the chance to sit and enjoy a hot cup of tea and good
conversation. Sometimes people need a reason to relax, and a tea party can be just that.  However, if you want to incorporate activities, these can easily be based on the reason for the gathering. Consult with your local party supply store or do a quick search online.

You can incorporate a “tea twist” on many common games, for example. Bridal and baby shower games can include a tea theme (such as word scrambles or searches), and tea gifts make wonderful party favors for your attendees. Package loose teas in festive netting and tie it with a beautiful ribbon.  Love bingo? Try Teago and let your guests learn about tea and its customs while competing in a familiar game. (www.teago.com [http://www.teago.com])

Decorations

Decorations will depend on the activity, such as a birthday, anniversary, or baby shower. Create a theme for the party, such as a vacation getaway for an anniversary. Decorate the room with beach balls, beach towels and have guests sit in outdoor lounge chairs (or if the weather is nice, take the party outside!). A “famous babies” theme for a baby shower is much more interesting than decorations that are all green and yellow.  Try filling the room with photos of actors who got their start in “pampers.”  The key is to put a twist on your party, and then, of course, offer a twist on the tea you serve such as a fruity tea for the beach party or bubble tea for a baby  shower.

Music

Music selections for your parties can vary greatly. To make it easy on yourself, look for compilation CDs that incorporate the theme. A CD of soft love songs is a great choice for an anniversary, for example, or an  orchestrated mix of lullabies for a baby shower. Visit your local music retailer for specific suggestions or do an online search for CDs that pertain to your theme.

Invitation Ideas

Use your theme to determine the types of invitations you will use. Get creative and make your own using specialty papers, or throw in a few loose tea leaves for a scented and enticing invitation (although some people
may not appreciate tea leaves falling out, so consider some type of mesh envelope!).  Because you’ll be centering your party on tea, think of using naturally colored invitations and alternative papers.  A traditional birthday invitation may not be quite what you’re looking for, so look into blank cards as well, as you can then add your own words.

Foods

What should you serve at a tea party? Again, your theme will have a lot to do with the food selections. If your theme is an anniversary beach party, for example, serve exotic fruits and finger sandwiches. If you are hosting a famous baby tea try collecting and serving favorite recipes of the stars then let your guests vote on the best appetizer.

Teas

Many parties lend themselves well to lighthearted and fruity teas and tisanes. Consider offering teas that your guests may not encounter otherwise. This is a fun way to introduce new teas and enjoy the festive atmosphere.

Creativity is a fountain of youth. Now grab a pencil, jot down your ideas and get started.
(C) Dawnya Sasse

Dawnya Sasse is the creator of the ultimate tea business training school allowing students to discover the secrets of the tea industry, “quickly and easily” without ever leaving home.

Why do some people succeed in the tea business? Discover how to “Unlock the Secrets of the Billion Dollar Tea Industry from the Comfort of Your Own Computer” and make your tea dream a reality. Free audio mini course http://www.StartATeaBusiness.com

Copyright 2006 Dawnya Sasse All Rights Reserved. Tea Events http://www.TeaEvents.com

 

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Holiday Tea Party Themes

The holidays are here and you want to spend some time with your friends.  You feel you should host a party, but don’t have the funds for a huge holiday blast.  An afternoon tea can be more relaxed and can even provide a sense of accomplishment.  Here are several ideas other than the traditional tea.  If you have a Christmas set of dinnerware, use it.  You can decorate in the traditional red and green colors or expand to the new themes of lime and blue, blue and silver, brown and cream or whatever you desire.

Tree trimming.  This theme can have a variety of sub-themes.  You can decorate your tree, make it a progressive party and decorate each others or decorate a tree for charity or for a shut-in or care facility.  In our area there is a tree decorating contest each year with the trees being auctioned and the money going to a charity.  If you do decorate for a shut-in be sure to arrange to take them down after the holidays.

Card writing.  This is a great time for each of you to do those special cards for family and friends.  You can meet at someone’s home and each of you provide part of the needed items.  Someone might buy the postage stamps, someone may be into scrapbooking and have colored pens, stickers, and other embellishments for the cards.  Someone may bring the cards and others might bring the food.  Have a fun time for the afternoon.  Have a table to place the cards while they dry.  Have a table for the food and plenty of work space.  Already have your list done?  Send cards to shut-ins or to our military personnel away from home.

Peppermints and the Nutcracker Suite.  Use peppermints for decorations, as table favors, and in the foods served.  The either go to the live performance (or have the tea after the matinee), what it on TV or just listen to the music in the background as you share an afternoon of catch up.

Exchanges.  There can be several types of exchanges.  Cookies, ornaments, tea cups, tea (a great way to sample new teas without having to buy a lot), gifts, books and more.  Bring enough for each person of whatever you are exchanging plus one for sampling at the event – or bring two.  One for those present and one for a shelter or charity.

Christmas Bling or Divas.  This is the time for you to bring out the best, or worst, in you.  Dress up in your antlers and jingle bells,  the holiday tiaras and the blinking Rudolph pin.  It’s up to the hostess as to whether she was classy or campy for the party.  There could be prizes.  Or maybe you dress up and go to tea out in public.  You don’t have to be a Red Hatter to do this.

Candles and Firelight.  Ward off those dreary days and evenings with a table set with candles and a cozy fire burning.  Candles bother you?  No fireplace?   Bring on the twinkle lights.

Christmas Carols.  This theme could also mix with some of the others.  Enjoy the tea and add a caroling event  to a  nursing facility or hospital.  You’d look great in your Christmas Bling.  Or just sing along around the tea table.

Traditions Around the World.  Each person tells about a tradition, either their family one or each study a culture’s tradition.  Great theme for a club meeting.

Afternoon at the Movie.  Enjoy tea while discussing the movie you just attended or while watching one on TV.  maybe the Downton Abbey Christmas Special (dress in the theme), Christmas Vacation, It’s a Wonderful Life, etc.

Friendship Tea.  This is pretty much your traditional tea.  You can share any of the exchange, the carols, etc.  This is a time to renew a friendship with someone who’s moved back to town or is in town visiting or even that new family that just moved into the neighborhood.

Victorian Tea.  Share the tradition, the dress, the food of the Victorian era.  Maybe combine it with a movie, book review or songs related to the era.

Where’s Santa.  This is like Where’s Waldo.  The person who finds the most wins a prize.  Decorate with Santas, hide a Santa, and wrap gifts in Santa paper.  This could also be the theme for a tea where the attendees also bring a gift for a shelter or for Toys for Tots or the local food pantry.

It’s a Wrap.  This is kind of like the Christmas card party, but you wrap presents for your family or a charity.  This is a great time to share paper, ribbons, etc. And you might even be able to exchange storage space so your daughter doesn’t find her new doll too soon.  It makes the chore go faster and maybe talents can be shared.  It could even be assembly line time.

Cup of Christmas Cheer.  Include a reading of the Cup of Christmas Tea.  Decorate in the Christmas theme.  It can be combined with a visit to a shut-in or a nursing facility.

Holiday Stress Relief.  Yes.  Aromatherapy, a spa day, massages, guided imagery or a Christmas Comedy.  The idea is to relax, take off your shoes and enjoy each other’s company.

See the Sights.  After afternoon tea, pile into the van and drive around town to take in the decorated homes, the lights in the park, etc.  Then finish with another cup of tea before parting company for the evening.

I hope you find these ideas helpful.  Have a wonderful holiday season.  Merry Christmas.

 

 

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Vintage Videos on Entertaining

Sometimes as I stand in line at the fast food counter of a national chain restaurant grabbing a quick dinner to go I think of women of past generations and marvel at their abilities and the difference a couple of generations can bring.  How many of you can remember Swanson or Banquet dinners in the aluminum foil that Mom would cook on those really busy nights or when she wasn’t feeling well.  I don’t mean the ones of today that are microwaveable, I mean the ones that still took a half hour in the oven.  Can you remember what a treat it was when they started adding desserts in the little square in the middle – and how those trays made great angel decorations?  And then came the three course dinners from Swanson.  If you don’t remember or want to reminisce, someone was nice enough to post the commercial on YouTube.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49Qn38WdTTs will take you to it.

And while I was searching YouTube, I came across a couple of really cute 1940’s Home Ec reels.  The first is on “Arranging the Tea Table”.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBscvgHSJyY will take you to that.

The second is “Arranging the Buffet Supper” table.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xCHw0H1dbs4

And the third is “Let’s Give a Tea” at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPCJJJnboKo&feature=related

And finally, “Dinner Party” is a lesson on dinner etiquette. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdo4efNsdOM&feature=fvwrel

Yes, the lighting is bad, the acting is less than Oscar-worthy, but they are still good tips for today.  I hope you enjoy them.

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Organizing Your Supplies

Have you ever wished to entertain and then realized that you were seriously low on supplies or lacked them altogether?  Would you have loved to pay back friends and family for their kindnesses to you or expand your entertaining, but weren’t sure where to start? January is traditionally time for new beginnings.  Resolve to be more prepared for entertaining in 2010.  With the After-Christmas sales in full swing and the January white and organization sales coming up, now is the perfect time to act upon that resolution.

With pen and pad in hand begin by inventorying your china, stemware and flatware.  What do you need to complete your sets?  Also inventory your service pieces, linens and perhaps even your cookware.  For less formal events you may even want to stock some lovely paper goods. Next time someone asks you what you want for your birthday, anniversary or holiday, you now have an answer.  If what you want or need is quite expensive, begin saving for it each week.  This “entertainment supply fund” could be financed by your rewards for reaching goals from another resolution such as smoking cessation or weight loss.  Watch auctions, yard sales and sales ads.  You may be able to obtain your desire at a fraction of full cost.

Organize by listing not only what you own but where they are stored.  Try to store them where they are easily accessible.   If you store in totes or boxes, number or label them.  Also keep your kitchen supplied with basics such as scone mixes, shelf stable cheeses, drink basics and food that can quickly be assembled into a repast.  When you use them, be sure to place them on your shopping list for replenishing.  You might even adapt a recipe to make it your signature dish. 

Just because your sets are incomplete should not stop you from entertaining.  Improvise, hold smaller parties with fewer guests or entertain less formally.  If what you lack is seating, consider a picnic.  The picnic could be on the floor in front of the fireplace, on the porch or patio, in the yard or at a public venue.  In February I was traveling through northwest Ohio and stopped at a deli chain for lunch.  In came a lady with a tote.  Out of the tote came a table runner, a bud vase and a cut flower.   She sat down with a book and began to read, but shortly she was joined by a dining companion.  I know the extra gesture was welcomed and brightened a dreary winter day.

Is your roadblock a lack of confidence or experience?  Volunteer to work on the social committee of your club or church.  Learn from those on the committee with experience.  Read, watch videos, “experiment” on your family.  Begin with a small, informal gathering and work your way up to a more involved event.  If you are most comfortable with the small event, there is no reason it cannot become your specialty. 

Is lack of time your problem?  Stick to simple, easy, menus and settings.  Schedule your event well in advance and make it a priority. Set aside a few minutes each day to  devote to the project and you will be well on your way to success.

Is money tight?  Organize a simple afternoon tea, “dessert”, pot luck or even an evening of pizza and a movie. Invite your friends to your house for appetizers before attending a seminar or play.  Use your imagination and refer to those ideas you have collected.  Prepare food that does not use exotic ingredients.  Entertaining is more than showing off your cooking skills and possessions.  It is enjoying one another’s company. 

Begin reference files for such things as recipes, tablescapes and other party inspirations.  Dream, Plan and set a date.  There are many books and websites devoted to party planning.  Use the advise as a guideline and plan your own unique entertainment venue. 

Be sure to take photos and/or draw diagrams of the room and table arrangement when you do have an event.  Keep a journal with information of who was invited, who attended, what was served, what were the positive and what you would not do again, what you used as china, stemware and centerpieces and other notes.  You may want to note that Kevin is allergic to shellfish or that Madam X and Dr. Z should not be placed together as she wears perfume that causes his allergies to be exacerbated.  You might even go so far as to develop event sheets just like the big hotels.  These lists help keep you on track so that you are organized during the event.  They help you remember to get that extra ice or to serve the peas that are in the freezer.

Entertaining can be as expansive as a banquet for hundreds or as simple as a snack with your best friend.  With just a little planning, preparation and organization your event can be a success. Enjoy.

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